Former President Goodluck Jonathan has replied Buhari over claims that
his administration failed in the handling of the Boko Haram insurgency.
Former President, Goodluck Jonathan has said he did not plan to lose the
Boko Haram war as is being suggested by President Muhammadu Buhari.
According to the Punch, Jonathan spoke on Sunday in reaction to an interview Buhari granted the Hausa Service of the British Broadcasting Corporation.
In the interview, Buhari accused the Jonathan administration of
deliberately provoking Nigerian soldiers into mutiny by its actions and
turning round to arrest and prosecute the soldiers.
He said the past administration, while fighting terrorists, sent
soldiers to the battlefield without arms and ammunition. Jonathan,
however, said he tried to protect the constitution, which had had sworn
to defend when he assumed office.
The former president, who spoke through his then Minister of National
Planning, Dr. Abubakar Suleiman, said he did everything within his
power to defend the sovereignty and territorial integrity of the
country.
“No responsible government would strategise to lose a war.
President Jonathan sworn to defend Nigeria sovereignty and territorial
integrity and he did everything possible to achieve that height in the
fight against the insurgents,” a text message by Suleiman said.
“It is unfair therefore for Mr. President to perceive such efforts by his predecessor as criminal and treasonable.
“The President should, in an attempt to build this country, make such
pronouncements that will further unite us as a people than that those
that would divide us. Posterity will judge everybody.”
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Wednesday, 30 December 2015
Exposed! Sheikh Ahmed Gumi Makes Implicating Revelations Against El-Zakzaky
A respected Islamic cleric, Sheikh Ahmed Gumi has made harsh accusations
against embattled leader of the Islamic Movement in Nigeria, Sheikh
El-Zakzaky.
Leader of the Islamic Movement in Nigeria, Sheikh Ibrahim
El-Zakzaky is in the line of fire as a renowned Kaduna-based Islamic
cleric, Sheikh Ahmed Gumi, on Tuesday accused the leader of the Islamic
Movement in Nigeria, Ibraheem El-Zakzaky, of running a parallel
government in the North.
Gumi made serious revelation while speaking with newsmen in Kaduna
as he alleged that for the 40 years of its existence, the Shi’ite sect
had been conducting military training for its members.
According to information obtained by Punch, Gumi revealed that the
Islamic Movement in Nigeria is operating a state within the state. He
said, “The Shiites have been embarking on military training and
producing cadets and soldiers.
“The Islamic Movement of Nigeria does not recognise the
corporate entity of Nigeria. The group is not registered. They operate
above the law and they get direct foreign aid.”
The cleric recalled that the late President Umaru Yar’Adua told him
of the massive importation of weapons to different parts of the country
and made mentioned of Iran as supplying arms to the El-Zakzaky-led
movement.
Gumi maintained that he had last year written a letter, warning about the danger of blocking highways by the Shi’ite sect “where his (El-Zakzaky) followers travelled on foot from all over the country to Zaria.”
He added that the blockage of roads as allegedly done by the Shi’ites “is an abomination in Islam.”
Gumi warned that North would continue to be under-developed because
of the activities of Shi’ite and Boko Haram groups. He said: “The strife and unnecessary blocking of roads and shouting slogans on the way increases the tension in the North.”
The cleric further noted that the bloody clash between the Army and
the Shi’ites was a divine intervention to prevent the recurrence of “another Boko Haram.”
It would be recalled that the Nigerian Army clashed Shi'ite members resulting in the loss of human lives, in which many alleged that the military massacred and destroyed the headquarters of the group.
Tuesday, 29 December 2015
See Photos of Femi Adesina's Sister Who Died in a Car Crash (Photos)
These are pictures of the late Prof. Foluke Ogunleye, Head of Department
of Dramatic Arts of the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife and sister
to Femi Adesina.
Here are pictures of the late professor who was the Head of Department (HoD) of Dramatic Arts of the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Ile-Ife, Prof. Foluke Ogunleye
Here are pictures of the late professor who was the Head of Department (HoD) of Dramatic Arts of the Obafemi Awolowo University (OAU), Ile-Ife, Prof. Foluke Ogunleye
Emir of Kano, Sanusi and His Beautiful Daughter, Shahida Take a Selfie (Photo)
The photo was shared on the official Instagram account of Emir of Kano, Muhammadu Lamido Sanusi.
The post was captioned: "May Allah bless your union, my daughter" it say.
Shashida reportedly got married of late.
I Dumped Nyako for Atiku Because He Gave Me N500 Million - Adamawa Governor
The current governor of Adamawa state has revealed the huge financial
support he received from Atiku Abubakar during the gubernatorial
election which made him switch loyalty.
Speaking while receiving Jimeta community elders, the governor accused some powerful politicians of attempting to smear his image because he refused to do their bidding.
“Apart from the money from the headquarters, nobody gave me ten naira during the campaign. The former Vice President asked me if we had any financial problem. So, I called the party secretary, Abdullahi Bakari, who put our demand at N300 million. Then, the former Vice President sent N500,000 million through Jauro,” he said.
Atiku, who was elected governor in 1999, was a key political figure in Adamawa State. He left his position as governor to become Vice President after former President Olusegun Obasanjo chose him as his running mate.
Governor Jibrilla Bindow of Adamawa state has provided reason on
why he shifted his loyalty from former governor, Murtala Nyako to
former Vice President Atiku Abubakar, according to the DailyTrust.
Governor Jibrilla said the chieftain of the All Progressives Congress (APC) donated N500 million to his governorship campaign.
Governor Jibrilla said the chieftain of the All Progressives Congress (APC) donated N500 million to his governorship campaign.
Speaking while receiving Jimeta community elders, the governor accused some powerful politicians of attempting to smear his image because he refused to do their bidding.
“Apart from the money from the headquarters, nobody gave me ten naira during the campaign. The former Vice President asked me if we had any financial problem. So, I called the party secretary, Abdullahi Bakari, who put our demand at N300 million. Then, the former Vice President sent N500,000 million through Jauro,” he said.
Atiku, who was elected governor in 1999, was a key political figure in Adamawa State. He left his position as governor to become Vice President after former President Olusegun Obasanjo chose him as his running mate.
His deputy, Boni Haruna became governor after his decision to run
for the office of Vice President on Atiku-Obasanjo presidential joint
ticket on the platform of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).
Biafra: Nnamdi Kanu Apologizes to Buhari, Jonathan, Igbo Elders
It has been revealed according to reliable information that the detained
leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra and founder of Radio Biafra,
Nnamdi Kanu has tendered an apology.
The leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra and founder of Radio
Biafra, Nnamdi Kanu, has expressed regret for referring to President
Muhammadu Buhari as a terrorist, evil and a paedophile in his radio
broadcasts.
Kanu, who has been charged along with two others by the Federal
Government before a Federal High Court in Abuja on six counts of treason
and other ancillary offences, said he intended to write a private
letter to Buhari to express his apology to the President.
He also apologised to former President Goodluck Jonathan and Igbo elders for “some uncomplimentary things” he said about them.
The 48-year-old pro-Biafran agitation leader, who is, however,
unapologetic about his demand for a Republic of Biafra, has been in the
custody of the Department of State Services since his arrest in Lagos on
October 14, 2015.
He tendered the apology for his comment against Buhari and others in a statement which he made to the DSS on October 23.
The prosecution, in its summary of the case, alleged that in one of
the radio broadcasts by Kanu on August 1, 2015, he expressed his
resolve to actualise the Republic of Biafra and “cast aspersions on the person and the office of the President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria”.
The statement read in part, “Reference to the President of the
Federal Republic of Nigeria as a terrorist, evil and a paedophile is
regrettable and uncalled for and for that, I unreservedly apologise and
will be doing so in a private letter to the President.
“Before PMB (President Muhammadu Buhari) there was the
administration of Goodluck Jonathan. I also said uncomplimentary things
about him and Igbo elders as well, which I now recognise should not have
happened because it is un-African to be rude or insolent to elders.
“All I was trying to do is to draw attention to the problems afflicting society and something done about them.”
Kanu, who described himself as a Nigerian and a British citizen, justified his agitation for a Biafra Republic.
He said IPOB’s secessionist agenda was informed by the “incessant
hardship, lack of holistic development in the socio-economic landscape
of Nigeria, lack of youth employment, corruption in high offices and
economic regression.”
He added that the agitation by IPOB, which, according to him, was
founded in London in 2012 by a group of people from the South-South and
South-East regions of the country, was in line with the United Nations
Charter on the Rights of Indigenous Peoples ratified by African
countries, including Nigeria.
In contrast to the counts of managing and assisting in the
management of an unlawful society preferred against Kanu and two others,
the Radio Biafra founder stated that IPOB, which the prosecution
described as unlawful, was registered with the UN to pursue the rights
of the people of Biafra.
He stated, “I can confirm that I, Nnamdi Kanu, is the leader of
Indigenous People of Biafra worldwide as a legitimately and duly
registered body at the United Nations pursuing the rights of a specific
indigenous people, in this case, Biafra, to seek self determination
according to the said charter.
“The reason for the formation of the Indigenous People of
Biafra is to avail those referring to themselves as Biafrans the
opportunity made available as a result of the United Nations declaration
to seek the peaceful rebirth of Biafra in line with international law.”
Kanu, who is a son of a traditional ruler in Abia State, Sir I.O.
Kanu, said he operated Radio Biafra, whose programmes “are designed to
wake up the public from its slumber and address the issues of the time”
because of his belief in free speech and freedom of expression.
He explained that the intended Biafra Republic comprised Enugu,
Ebonyi, Abia, Imo, Anambra, Cross River, Akwa Ibom, Rivers, Bayelsa and
Delta states as well the Igbanke part of Edo State; Igala part of Kogi
State and Idoma/Igede part of Edo State.
Apart from Kanu, one of the two other defendants in the six counts
filed by the Federal Government is a Field Maintenance Engineer, David
Nwawuisi, charged with the responsibility of maintaining MTN masts in
Enugu State.
The other defendant, Benjamin Madubugwu, was said to be living in
the Ubilisiuzo, Ihiala Local Government Area of Anambra State, where he
allegedly received custody of a container, housing transmitters, from
Kanu.
On December 23 during the accused persons’ appearance in court for
their scheduled arraignment, Kanu refused to take his plea due to what
he called his lack of confidence in the presiding judge, Justice Ahmed
Mohammed.
The judge promptly returned the case file to the Chief Judge of the
Federal High Court, Justice Ibrahim Auta, for reassignment to another
judge and the three accused persons were returned to the custody of the
Department of State Services.
The fresh charges were filed against the three men barely 24 hours
after Justice Adeniyi Ademola, in a ruling on Kanu’s bail application on
December 17, ordered his unconditional release from DSS custody having
been detained for about two months without any valid charges filed
against him.
The PUNCH had reported that the Federal Government had alleged that
transmitters for Radio Biafra, spreading secessionist agenda for
carving out Biafra region from Nigeria, were found to be installed on
MTN masts in Enugu and Anambra states between April and May 2015.
No new date has been fixed for the arraignment of the accused persons.
Source: Punch
Drama in Badagry as Iman Allegedly Tries to Use Lover for Money Ritual (Photos)
The craze for quick money has led an Imam in Badagry area of Lagos to
nearly sacrifice his girlfriend for money rituals after attempting to
cut her throat with a knife.
It was drama in Mowo 11, a suburb of Olorunda Local Council
Development Area of Badagry area in Lagos State, as an Islamic cleric,
Mallam Shehu, popularly referred to as Alhaji Sambo, attempted to use
his 20-year-old lover, Busayo Amdalat, for money ritual, Vanguard
reports.
According to the story, the victim, who resides in Ibeju-Lekki, was
said to have visited the cleric at Mowo Phase 2 in Badagry to spend the
Christmas holidays.
However, during the early hours of yesterday, the cleric had a
visitor known as Ifa and they asked the victim to put on a white cloth
and when she did, the cleric and his accomplice hit Busayo with an iron
rod on her head.
After that, Sambo’s accomplice, Ifa began slashing the victim’s
throat but she was able to muster courage by hitting Ifa on the head
with a bottle and in the process ran to a nearby street where a carnival
was taking place. Some stunned residents, who saw her drenched in a
pool of blood with injuries inflicted on her neck and other parts of her
body, quickly rushed her to an undisclosed hospital in the area.
It was gathered that the irate residents split themselves into two;
while one group took the girl to the hospital, the other went after the
Imam and his diabolical friend.
Taiwo Abdulraman, a resident who witnessed all the drama unfold said: “We
quickly mobilised and went after him, when we got to his house, we saw
blood in parts of the building. There were lots of charms and other
fetish substances in his house. We saw the iron rod and the sharp knife
he used on her, but we didn’t meet him in the house. We also quickly
mobilized and went to his second house at MTN Bus Stop, but he was
nowhere to be found," he said.
Islamic cleric, Mallam Shehu attempted to use Busayo for money rituals
Narrating her ordeal, Miss Amadalat said “We both had a quarrel
before now for close to three weeks. I knew his first wife before she
died but the second wife did not want him (Sambo) to marry me but he
resolved that he was going to marry me. I even got pregnant for him but
he rejected the pregnancy at some point in time.
“I went to report him to a Muslim cleric but the cleric said
there was nothing he could do to convince my lover to accept the
pregnancy. For about two months, I did not call Sambo and because of the
issue, I changed my telephone number.”
She said after Sambo apologized to her she forgave him.
Her words: “So, yesterday, Sambo and a man called Ifa were
having a discussion in his house. Before I knew it, he started taking
lots of alcohol, when I cautioned him; he refused to listen to me. He
even offered me some but I rejected it.
“Later that night, he asked me to wrap myself in a white
clothing of which I obliged. The man called Ifa wanted to use a cloth to
cover my face and in the process, Sambo came in with an iron rod and
hit me on the head. I shouted but nobody heard me because it was a bushy
area.
“Ifa and Sambo attacked me with a knife but I managed to lock
myself in a room. I now lied to them I had called one of the neighbours,
it was in that process that they left and I managed to escape from the
house.”
Sunday, 27 December 2015
HOT! 12 Things Men Do That Make Women Fall Deeper in Love
Women can't live without men and they certainly don't want to. They
enjoy all of the little things they do that make them so much hotter.
Here are 12 things men do that women really adore.
Planning is amazing
When a man plans, it’s almost as exciting as him proposing. Whether he organises a date, a weekend trip and an afternoon walk, all of it makes a woman happy. It shows her that he is capable of putting effort into her, and she likes it.
Being a great listener
Showing a woman that you’re a great listener is incredible. Remember things that the woman mentioned that she likes. Whether it’s flowers, a book, chocolates or jewellery, if you surprise your woman, it makes her feel really special.
Show her some vulnerability
It’s extraordinary when a man can openly and honestly talk about his feelings with you. When he’s comfortable doing so, it’s great. It’s so great, it’s like winning the emotional lottery.
Please her in the bedroom
When a man can make it happen for a woman, how elated she is. A man, who wants to pleasure a woman, so she really enjoys herself, is how women define a good man. He gets an extra applause if it’s something he doesn’t ordinarily like doing.
Cook for her
When a man knows his way around the kitchen and is capable and confident, it’s cute. Women are suckers for the look on his face when he means business with those vegetables. Cooking takes patience and shows women that they are cherish-worthy.
Let’s go shopping
Let’s face it; sports are a popular hobby for most men. Well, shopping is a favourite pastime of many women. Shopping is to women what sports is to men. Shopping may not be good for women’s wallets (or their man’s), and it certainly isn’t cardio, but it absolutely is fun. When a man can shop with you and give his opinion, he’s golden.
It’s okay to be nerdy
Am I the only woman who not-so-secretly thinks it’s really endearing when a man is curled up on his couch with his book? When he gets all geeked out and excited about something he is reading and is not ashamed of it, it is pretty adorable.
Compromise is key
How many times has your man done something he doesn’t want to because you asked him to? When a man does something for his woman that he wouldn’t ordinarily want to do, it makes her heart melt. Being sweet and thoughtful always goes a long way. She so appreciates you doing something you’re not eager to.
Get all sporty
It’s nice to see men fired up and passionate about sports. In fact, it’s oddly exciting. When you are roaring at the TV and getting all riled up — it’s almost erotic. When your eyes light up, you become quite desirable.
Kisses and caresses her
Being affectionate and sweet to women goes a long way. When a man is sweet to his woman — whether he puts his arm around her when she is not expecting it, hold her hand just because, or give her an excited kiss for no reason — her heart skips a beat.
Love her family
Some people have an unusual family. But, your family is your family and you love them a lot. When a man gets in close with the girl’s family and makes all family members love him, he’s extra fabulous.
It’s okay to be dominating
Dominating us makes us sizzle in all the right places. Every woman wants a little Fifty Shades of Grey in her life. There’s a time and a place to make love, and there’s a time and a place to be more aggressive. When the man know the difference, he can make us swoon.
Planning is amazing
When a man plans, it’s almost as exciting as him proposing. Whether he organises a date, a weekend trip and an afternoon walk, all of it makes a woman happy. It shows her that he is capable of putting effort into her, and she likes it.
Being a great listener
Showing a woman that you’re a great listener is incredible. Remember things that the woman mentioned that she likes. Whether it’s flowers, a book, chocolates or jewellery, if you surprise your woman, it makes her feel really special.
Show her some vulnerability
It’s extraordinary when a man can openly and honestly talk about his feelings with you. When he’s comfortable doing so, it’s great. It’s so great, it’s like winning the emotional lottery.
Please her in the bedroom
When a man can make it happen for a woman, how elated she is. A man, who wants to pleasure a woman, so she really enjoys herself, is how women define a good man. He gets an extra applause if it’s something he doesn’t ordinarily like doing.
Cook for her
When a man knows his way around the kitchen and is capable and confident, it’s cute. Women are suckers for the look on his face when he means business with those vegetables. Cooking takes patience and shows women that they are cherish-worthy.
Let’s go shopping
Let’s face it; sports are a popular hobby for most men. Well, shopping is a favourite pastime of many women. Shopping is to women what sports is to men. Shopping may not be good for women’s wallets (or their man’s), and it certainly isn’t cardio, but it absolutely is fun. When a man can shop with you and give his opinion, he’s golden.
It’s okay to be nerdy
Am I the only woman who not-so-secretly thinks it’s really endearing when a man is curled up on his couch with his book? When he gets all geeked out and excited about something he is reading and is not ashamed of it, it is pretty adorable.
Compromise is key
How many times has your man done something he doesn’t want to because you asked him to? When a man does something for his woman that he wouldn’t ordinarily want to do, it makes her heart melt. Being sweet and thoughtful always goes a long way. She so appreciates you doing something you’re not eager to.
Get all sporty
It’s nice to see men fired up and passionate about sports. In fact, it’s oddly exciting. When you are roaring at the TV and getting all riled up — it’s almost erotic. When your eyes light up, you become quite desirable.
Kisses and caresses her
Being affectionate and sweet to women goes a long way. When a man is sweet to his woman — whether he puts his arm around her when she is not expecting it, hold her hand just because, or give her an excited kiss for no reason — her heart skips a beat.
Love her family
Some people have an unusual family. But, your family is your family and you love them a lot. When a man gets in close with the girl’s family and makes all family members love him, he’s extra fabulous.
It’s okay to be dominating
Dominating us makes us sizzle in all the right places. Every woman wants a little Fifty Shades of Grey in her life. There’s a time and a place to make love, and there’s a time and a place to be more aggressive. When the man know the difference, he can make us swoon.
Source: Times of India
Check-out the Striking Resemblance Between VP Yemi Osinbajo and His Brother
The brother of Yemi Osinbajo, the Vice President of the Federal Republic
of Nigeria has surfaced with a close resemblance that makes the
brothers look like twins.
Vice president Prof Yemi Osinbajo's mother yesterday hosted a
Christmas party at her residence in Adebambo Street, Obanikoro, Lagos.
The event was attended by Governor Akinwunmi Ambode of Lagos. The
brother of the Vice President who name was given as and Mr. Akin
Osinbajo caught the eyes of the attendees as they shared a similar
physical appearance.
See more photos from the event:
Boko Haram Bomb Experts Nabbed in Kaduna
Vigilant Nigerian soldiers have arrested 7 Boko Haram bomb experts with
several materials for making explosives in the Northern part of Nigeria.
Here's a statement from the Nigerian army saying Boko Haram bomb experts were arrested in Kaduna.
Read details below:
Another catastrophe was averted in Kaduna State and other contiguous areas when troops of the Nigerian Army arrested 7 suspected Boko Haram terrorists bomb and Improvised Explosive making Devices (IEDs) specialists.
The terrorists were arrested in Kaduna after painstaking surveillance and proactive intelligence operations over a period of time.
From all indications, the suspects were in Kaduna to conduct suicide bombings, kill and maim innocent citizens in the state and other surrounding areas during the Christmas period. Recall that recently in Maiduguri some of them were arrested while trying to detonate IEDs carried in food containers in public places.
The arrest of these suspects would no doubt assist in the fight against terrorism in the country, more so as the military have technically defeated the Boko Haram terrorists in the field, the terrorists have resorted to attacking soft targets through suicide bombings, IEDs and harassing attacks on isolated communities.
Therefore, the public is please requested to continue to be more vigilant and security conscious by reporting suspicious persons and their movements to security agencies.
This request has become necessary because the terrorists have resorted to mingling with the public across the country after sensing the futility of their encounter with troops in the northeast. Therefore, they adopt other methods of perpetuating violence in the society.
Colonel Sani Kukasheka Usman
Acting Director Army Public Relations
Another catastrophe was averted in Kaduna State and other contiguous areas when troops of the Nigerian Army arrested 7 suspected Boko Haram terrorists bomb and Improvised Explosive making Devices (IEDs) specialists.
The terrorists were arrested in Kaduna after painstaking surveillance and proactive intelligence operations over a period of time.
From all indications, the suspects were in Kaduna to conduct suicide bombings, kill and maim innocent citizens in the state and other surrounding areas during the Christmas period. Recall that recently in Maiduguri some of them were arrested while trying to detonate IEDs carried in food containers in public places.
The arrest of these suspects would no doubt assist in the fight against terrorism in the country, more so as the military have technically defeated the Boko Haram terrorists in the field, the terrorists have resorted to attacking soft targets through suicide bombings, IEDs and harassing attacks on isolated communities.
Therefore, the public is please requested to continue to be more vigilant and security conscious by reporting suspicious persons and their movements to security agencies.
This request has become necessary because the terrorists have resorted to mingling with the public across the country after sensing the futility of their encounter with troops in the northeast. Therefore, they adopt other methods of perpetuating violence in the society.
Colonel Sani Kukasheka Usman
Acting Director Army Public Relations
Caution: The Most Dangerous S*x Position You Must Never Try (Photo)
This profiles a lovemaking position which is capable of leading to serious injuries while having fun with a partner.
Penile fracture is a relatively uncommon clinical condition that frequently causes fear and embarrassment for the patient, hypothetically resulting in delayed search for medical assistance, which can lead to impairment of s*xual and voiding functions.
Even if you don’t have a p*nis, the thought of one snapping will
still fill you with all kinds of horror. Nothing kills the mood like a
penile fracture. Scientists have found that the position, dubbed
“cowgirl” (Woman-on-top), is responsible for half of all penile
fractures cases reported from three hospitals, according to a study
conducted by researchers.
The researchers believe this is due to the full force of the woman’s body weight controlling the act. The nature of the act makes the woman less able to quickly divert her momentum if she lands askew on her partner’s equipment which causes him to experience painful “wrong way penetration.”
The researchers believe this is due to the full force of the woman’s body weight controlling the act. The nature of the act makes the woman less able to quickly divert her momentum if she lands askew on her partner’s equipment which causes him to experience painful “wrong way penetration.”
The harm is usually minor for her and with no pain, but major for
the p*nis. Positions involving the woman on all-fours (doggy style) were
also involved in 29% of fractures.
Penile fracture is a relatively uncommon clinical condition that frequently causes fear and embarrassment for the patient, hypothetically resulting in delayed search for medical assistance, which can lead to impairment of s*xual and voiding functions.
Considering that most studies are retrospective and based on
patients records information regarding the social dynamics surrounding
penile fracture is scarce in the literature, mainly potentially risky
s*xual positions.”
Friday, 25 December 2015
Shocked Husband Catches Teacher-wife Having Sex With 15-year-old Student (Photo)
A 45-year-old woman's insatiable lust for men has landed her in trouble
after her husband found her having sex with a 15-year-old student in
their home.
According to the police, a teaching assistant repeatedly had sex with a 15-year-old student before being caught by her husband.
The identified woman named Kyle Damato-Kushel, 45, from Stratford,
Connecticut, gave her husband the shock of his life by bringing home a
15-year-old student to their home to have sex. The shocked man didn't
even know that his wife had been having sex with the teenage boy since
2013, it is claimed.
However, her luck ran out after she was allegedly caught when her
husband, thinking there were burglars in the house, called police when
he heard noises from elsewhere within the property.
However it is claimed that the noises were coming from a room in
the home where Damato-Kushel was having sex with the boy. Police say
that her DNA was found on the boy's underwear.
More information from the police revealed telling revelations. The
teaching assistant, who worked at Wooster Middle School in Fairfield
County, told the boy to keep quiet about their relationship - offering
him $900, police disclosed.
She has been charged with sexual assault, impairing the morals of a
child and tampering with a witness. Damato-Kushel is yet to enter a
plea.
Please Help! My Housemaid is Better Than My Wife in Bed
A reader has sent his story of his current predicament and
needs the advice of readers to help him get out of the web of an illicit
relationship with his housemaid which is getting out of hand.
My name is Sukanmi from Ibadan, Oyo state. I am married with a handsome son who is 3-years old. I am a Civil Servant. I am married to a very beautiful Igbo lady from Anambra. She is a successful businesswoman with a popular boutique to show for it.
My wife is the best wife on earth but I have offended her gravely without her knowledge. What I am about to share constitutes a huge burden in my heart. My reluctance to confess my sins have been weighing me down. My wife started her trading business 2 years ago and the venture took virtually all her time. She makes so much money compared to me. She closes from her stall as late as 10pm as she takes inventory with her workers for accountability sake.
She returns home very tired. Her work schedule has been financially helpful to our home but it has been eating indirectly into the foundation of our marriage. We hardly have time to have s*x. She comes home so late and too tired for any pleasure session. Sometimes, she doesn't eat before she goes to bed due to the level of tiredness. She was only free on Sundays until her top customers started making demands for expensive wears on the Sabbath day which forces her to open the stall in the evening to effect sales.
This started telling on me as a man. I tried complaining and she promised to make amends. There was a period during which we didn't have sex for about 5 months as she was engaged in some business trips to Dubai and other states in Nigeria.
Unconsciously I started eyeing the backside of our 21-year old housemaid named Imabong from Akwa Ibom state. Truth be told, she is blessed physically. She wears attractive beads around her waist. Ever since I sighted them, I have been unable to sleep well at night. As time went on, Imabong started wearing some bum shorts in the evenings on my return from work. I was almost thinking it was in a bid to seduce me. One day, I couldn't resist the sight of her bum. I drove out and got myself really drunk as some sort of distraction. The period coincided with my wife's trip to Lagos to buy some goods for sale.
I came back around 11pm at night. I was so perplexed to see her wearing a see-through nightwear at the sitting room waiting for me. She said she was bothered about my late return which was unusual as well as her failed efforts to reach me on phone.
That moment, I wasn't listening to her at all. Her cleavage was staring at my face. The effect of the alcohol exaggerated everything about her in my sight. I confirmed our little boy's location and when I discovered he was already asleep, I made into her room. At first she was shocked, I promised her money and other juicy benefits. In no time she went off guard and put up a little struggle like normal timid ladies sleeping with a man for the first time.
We had rough s*x all night. During the first round she was acting so amateur, later on; all hell was let loose. She took on me like her life depended on it. From her reactions and the firmness of her body, I was sure she must have been sexually starved. Since that fateful day, it has become a regular affair. Imabong is really wild. Every position is comfortable for her as against my wife that loves it missionary. Imabong is s*xually creative and she brings the acts in porn movies to reality.
I am so addicted to her that I find it hard to touch my lovely wife. The last time I tried making love to her, it was almost impossible to get an erection. Even when I did, I went flaccid in no time. It was then I realised that child birth has taken its toll on her. She has been wondering about how my urge for s*x went cold suddenly and I know in no time she may find out.
The fact is that I have tried to sack Imabong but it’s difficult considering her enthusiasm in doing her household chores and her prowess on bed. What will be my reason for relieving her of her duties? My wife will become suspicious in no time. The foundation of my home is currently being threatened and a fatal crash is imminent.
I think I need to be rehabilitated. Please advise me and save my home. I am at the crossroads at this point.
My name is Sukanmi from Ibadan, Oyo state. I am married with a handsome son who is 3-years old. I am a Civil Servant. I am married to a very beautiful Igbo lady from Anambra. She is a successful businesswoman with a popular boutique to show for it.
My wife is the best wife on earth but I have offended her gravely without her knowledge. What I am about to share constitutes a huge burden in my heart. My reluctance to confess my sins have been weighing me down. My wife started her trading business 2 years ago and the venture took virtually all her time. She makes so much money compared to me. She closes from her stall as late as 10pm as she takes inventory with her workers for accountability sake.
She returns home very tired. Her work schedule has been financially helpful to our home but it has been eating indirectly into the foundation of our marriage. We hardly have time to have s*x. She comes home so late and too tired for any pleasure session. Sometimes, she doesn't eat before she goes to bed due to the level of tiredness. She was only free on Sundays until her top customers started making demands for expensive wears on the Sabbath day which forces her to open the stall in the evening to effect sales.
This started telling on me as a man. I tried complaining and she promised to make amends. There was a period during which we didn't have sex for about 5 months as she was engaged in some business trips to Dubai and other states in Nigeria.
Unconsciously I started eyeing the backside of our 21-year old housemaid named Imabong from Akwa Ibom state. Truth be told, she is blessed physically. She wears attractive beads around her waist. Ever since I sighted them, I have been unable to sleep well at night. As time went on, Imabong started wearing some bum shorts in the evenings on my return from work. I was almost thinking it was in a bid to seduce me. One day, I couldn't resist the sight of her bum. I drove out and got myself really drunk as some sort of distraction. The period coincided with my wife's trip to Lagos to buy some goods for sale.
I came back around 11pm at night. I was so perplexed to see her wearing a see-through nightwear at the sitting room waiting for me. She said she was bothered about my late return which was unusual as well as her failed efforts to reach me on phone.
That moment, I wasn't listening to her at all. Her cleavage was staring at my face. The effect of the alcohol exaggerated everything about her in my sight. I confirmed our little boy's location and when I discovered he was already asleep, I made into her room. At first she was shocked, I promised her money and other juicy benefits. In no time she went off guard and put up a little struggle like normal timid ladies sleeping with a man for the first time.
We had rough s*x all night. During the first round she was acting so amateur, later on; all hell was let loose. She took on me like her life depended on it. From her reactions and the firmness of her body, I was sure she must have been sexually starved. Since that fateful day, it has become a regular affair. Imabong is really wild. Every position is comfortable for her as against my wife that loves it missionary. Imabong is s*xually creative and she brings the acts in porn movies to reality.
I am so addicted to her that I find it hard to touch my lovely wife. The last time I tried making love to her, it was almost impossible to get an erection. Even when I did, I went flaccid in no time. It was then I realised that child birth has taken its toll on her. She has been wondering about how my urge for s*x went cold suddenly and I know in no time she may find out.
The fact is that I have tried to sack Imabong but it’s difficult considering her enthusiasm in doing her household chores and her prowess on bed. What will be my reason for relieving her of her duties? My wife will become suspicious in no time. The foundation of my home is currently being threatened and a fatal crash is imminent.
I think I need to be rehabilitated. Please advise me and save my home. I am at the crossroads at this point.
Thursday, 24 December 2015
Hot! 7 Top Signs Your Career is Killing Your Relationship (Must Read)
Your relationship might be packing up without you knowing until the
bubble burst on your face. Get to know the top signs your career is
killing your relationship and have the opportunity to save it.
Elysha Krupp
brings to you the signs to show that your career is really killing your
relationship and offers the best advice on how you can make a major
improvement to change the situation before it becomes a stumbling block.
1. You Can't Be Away From Your Phone
Whether you're checking work emails or just scanning Twitter, it’s
pretty common to have your phone on the table during a night out. If you
feel apprehensive about leaving your phone at home for two hours,
you’re probably worrying too much about potential emails.
Advice: Just go out to dinner for two hours and leave your phone at
home. This will probably feel like a mini holiday with your partner
once you stop panicking for the first half-hour. (More phone etiquette
tips right this way.)
2. You Use Business Slang In Your Personal Life
A quick scan through your text messages may reveal if you’re
neglecting your relationship. Answering dozens of work emails every day
can permanently alter the way you communicate via text. You’re in
trouble if you’ve sent your partner any texts that resemble, “Just
following up on a confirmation RE: dinner tonight. Would appreciate a
response by COB.”
Advice: This is weird, and it makes someone feel like they’re
talking to an auto-reply email response. Just text like a normal person.
3. You Don't Go To Bed Together
S*x isn’t the only form of intimacy that matters. Just the simple
act of falling asleep together can do wonders for your relationship if
you’ve been going to bed late because of work. Going to bed together is
pretty basic, but if you haven't been doing it and are still somehow
together, this is a good place to start.
Advice: Instead of working the extra few hours before going to
sleep, lay in bed together and just watch some Netflix. Or have s*x. Or
read. Or have great s*x without intercourse. Anything but talk about
work.
4. You've Stopped Having S*x
52% of people admitted to having sleep problems related to stress
at work, according to a workplace poll by the mental health charity
Mind. And because more sleep leads to more s*x, there's only one
conclusion to draw: If you're stressed at work and thus lacking sleep,
you're likely not wowing her in the bedroom like you used to. Though
there are plenty of reasons why couples might have s*x less frequently,
being overworked is certainly one of them.
Advice: If you’re not having as much s*x as you used to, make plans
to have more s*x. It might take a while to get back into your old
schedule. But chances are it will make you happy, which will lead to
more s*x, which will lead to more happiness, which will lead to… you get
it.
5. You're Overly Sensitive
Do you normally get upset when your partner asks you for the third
time to hang the new flatscreen on the wall? Probably not. But if you're
starting to hear a different tone in their voice lately, it could be
more your perception than reality. Neff and Karney (2009) found that
when under increased stress, we feel perceived slights, for instance, by
our significant other, more acutely. The more stressed, the more
reactive we are to the normal ups and downs of our relationship.
Advice: Try to unwind when you get home before engaging with your
partner. Start talking to each other focusing on compliments before
getting into any venting sessions.
6. There's No Spontaneity
If you’re so overworked that you can’t make plans in advance, then
you’re most likely not being spontaneous. It’s hard to plan to be
spontaneous. In fact, it’s kind of impossible by definition. But a good
spontaneous activity will probably inject more life into the
relationship than a week of planned dates.
Advice: Next time you’re working over the weekend and you think to
yourself, “Man, I wish I was doing [blank] instead,” just go to that
thing. It will feel like you’re doing something wrong, but it will be
worth it.
7. You Don't Go Out Anymore
Whether you’ve married for 15 years or been dating for 6 months,
you’ve got to make plans to get out of the house and spend some time
together. If you’re spending too much time thinking about work, you
probably haven’t planned a date night in a while. It sounds corny, but
you should still “date” your wife or girlfriend.
Advice: If you’re have trouble coming up with some date ideas,
think about where you would take someone on the fifth date. Studies say
that tends to be an important one
Hot! 9 Obvious Signs She's About to Break Up With You
For every man, knowing when the relationship is about crumbling is very
important because it could be really be disastrous to see your woman
walk away without you having a clue what went wrong. Save your
relationship with these easy tips.
A woman is a complicated machine that sometimes, decoding things
might be very difficult unless you have experience or idea. That's why
we provide you the tips to handle your relationship problems before they
get out of hand. The AskMen Editors have assembled these important guide to help you.
1. She avoids your family & friends
A girlfriend looking to secure a place in your life will have to
make nice with both your family and your friends, but she wouldn't put
in the time if she didn't think there was any future in your
relationship. There are two reasons why she might not want to spend the
quality time: Either she doesn't like them or she doesn't want to become
too ingrained in your social circle, which would make it harder for her
to walk away. And if she genuinely dislikes them, a relationship-minded
girlfriend is likely to throw you a bone every once in a while if she
wants to be a part of your life. The same thing applies if she's not
interested in you meeting her circle of friends and family. Like
jen_wexxx writes, "If she suddenly doesn't want you meeting important
people in their lives like parents," that's a sure sign she's checked
out.
2. She doesn't make future plans
Planning ahead is the hallmark of what makes a relationship serious
rather than casual. If you find that your lady isn't dropping hints
about events or plans more than a week or two away, there's a good
chance she isn't sure you'll be around. As PigeonCoo writes, "Ask
yourself: Is she making a lot of plans that do not include me?" If she's
making future plans -- they just don't include you -- she's not doing
it by accident and is likely looking for a way to end things.
3. She never leaves anything at your place
It's only natural: If you're in a strong relationship, you feel
comfortable leaving each other's stuff at each other's flats. It can be
practical items like a brush and a pair of pyjamas or something personal
like a book; in either case they signal that she sees her presence as
somewhat consistent and at the very least, her intent to visit again. If
she always packs a complete overnight bag and is reluctant to leave
anything behind, it might signal that she isn't sure that she'll be
coming back and she's wary of losing those items for good.
4. She's Been Hanging Out With So & So. A Lot.
Obviously everyone's entitled to having friends of the opposite
gender while in a relationship. But if she casually references the fact
that she's been hanging out with a certain so and so over and over
again, chances are she's losing interest in you and veering towards a
relationship with the person she keeps mentioning. Bonus points if you
text or call her while she's hanging out with him and she doesn't
answer.
5. She Seems Uninterested
Remember how, when you first got together, everything you said was
interesting? Everything made her laugh? Now she can't even be bothered
to stop mid-text when you tell her you got a promotion at work or your
mate can't make your birthday drinks. She seems to have a great time
whenever she's out with friends but when she's with you she just seems
muted. Furthermore, if when she does answer, it's a one-word comment
feigning interest, that's a sure sign she's waiting to end things,
writes jen_wexxx.
6. She Doesn't Touch You - Like At All
If you're into someone it's hard not to hold their hand or run your
fingers through their hair. Even if you've been together forever, and
that butterflies-in-your-stomach-feeling wanes, these things don't
lessen they only become more natural and consistent. Less charged,
perhaps. So the minute the touching stops, whether it's passionate or
habitual, you know something's up.
7. She's Picking Fights
Fights are normal in any healthy relationship -- it's the way they
start that matters (well, and how ugly they get...). Basically if
everything becomes an issue -- especially if things that she used to be
cool about become excuses to stir up World War III -- you need to be
reading the fact that she's trying to get you fed up enough that you'll
break up with her first. At a minimum, she's extremely unhappy about
something you're doing and this is her way of telling you. A deleted
comment from the Reddit thread names "inciting arguments with you over
seemingly inane things" and we couldn't agree more.
8. She Takes Forever To Reply
If she wants to be with you, she'll be happy to see a text or call
from you and reply fairly quickly. Of course there may be the occasional
lengthy pause for dramatic measure, but she will never flat out ignore
you. Ignoring is a dummy-proof rejection, fellas.
9. She Ignores You When You're Together
It's no great secret that happy couples interact with each other --
a lot. If you're hanging out and she's constantly checking her phone or
if you're out with a group of friends and she's making a point to seem
really interested in everyone else but you, you're in trouble. Her
disregard will extend to social media as well; As jen_wexxx points out,
she'll "shut off Facebook chat only for you but will obviously still be
on Facebook", she'll ignore your messages or won't respond to comments.
See Ojukwu and Gowon Eating Together From the Same Plate At Aburi, Ghana in 1967 (Photo)
A Picture of the late Biafran warlord, Ojukwu and former Head of State,
Gowon has shown the period when the two leaders were still cordial
before the civil war that ravaged the country.
The pictures shows Chukwuemeka
Odimegwu Ojukwu and Yakubu Gowon in Aburi, Ghana in 1969 where the
famous Aburi accord was signed.
Gowon and Ojukwu are seen sharing a meal while Ghana’s then head of state, Joe Ankrah watches on.
The meeting was billed to be the last chance of preventing all out war. It was held between 4 and 5 January 1967
8 Things That Make Women Want to Have S*x
Heard “Not tonight, honey” a few too many times lately? If it’s just not
happening between the sheets for you and your lady, it might be time to
learn what really gets her psyched for s*x.
To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.
5. The need for revenge
In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge sex” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having sex — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.
6. Genetics
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their own, because this is the set of genes involved in determining an individual’s immune function. “Having children with men who are dissimilar produces children with healthier immune systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be able to pick this up through sense of smell, especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal contraceptives.”
7. Her physical health or well-being
If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she should have sex with you, there are countless ways in which you can emphasize that “getting busy” would be a wise move for her health. “During orgasm, opiates — the body’s natural painkillers — are released, which can help decrease all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston explains. Sex can also help maintain the body’s flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally, Meston notes, having sex during menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of course, sex (if it lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for dessert.
8. To raise her social status or sense of self-esteem
In their research, Meston and Buss found that, for some women, having sex is more about competition and winning (see who went home with the good-looking guy at the bar?). For women that do this to compete with others and also raise their social standing, her intended target’s social status is a key factor in revving her libido. “Young women who are ‘groupies,’ for example, often compete to see who can have sex with the musician who has a higher status, while Monica Lewinsky raised her status by having an intimate connection with the President,” Buss says. She goes on to explain that, for women who have sex to raise their self-esteem, the motivating factor is usually the need to feel sexually desirable. “Some women suffer from low self-esteem and feel bad about their bodies for a variety of reasons, ranging from comparisons with media models to put-downs by their regular mates,” explains Buss. Having sex with a man who finds her irresistibly hot and her body incredibly beautiful can provide a huge boost to a woman’s self-esteem — so if you’re looking for a little loving, make her feel like she’s the sexiest woman on the planet!
While guys are generally up for sex whenever, wherever (regardless
of the situation), women tend to need a bit more inspiration, according
to Cindy M. Meston, Ph.D. and David M. Buss, Ph.D., psychology
professors at the University of Texas at Austin and coauthors of Why
Women Have Sex: Understanding Sexual Motivations from Adventure to
Revenge (and Everything in Between). For a better understanding of how
to get her in the mood, consider the following eight factors that Meston
and Buss say affects a woman’s libido:
1. Her man’s appearance
Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.
2. The time of day
Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have sex when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!
3. Certain smells
Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their body — can influence a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have sex with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.
4. Her guy’s choice of words
Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.
1. Her man’s appearance
Men are usually considered to be the most turned on by visual stimuli (think about it: how many strip clubs and adult magazines are actually targeted toward females?), but women are actually quite turned on by a man’s face, body and movement as well, say Meston and Buss. “Sexually, women are attracted to men with masculine features, although not too masculine,” Meston explains. “A little light stubble is usually a turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-kept. Body-wise, women generally find men with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-hip ratio sexually attractive. Motion is important, too, as women find athletic prowess and agility to be sexual turn-ons.” The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the sack, a good first step to take might be getting yourself into the gym.
2. The time of day
Meston says that women are very individualized in terms of when they most prefer to get it on: “In general, women want to have sex when they feel their best — when they have energy, feel connected to their partners, aren’t distracted by work or stressful daily events, and when they feel sexy — and that may or may not be at night.” In order to figure out when a woman’s most likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the times she seems the most energized and/or chilled out. Try thinking outside the box — you may find that she’d love a post-jog quickie right before her shower!
3. Certain smells
Meston and Buss explain that, for women, sense of smell is far more important than it is to men when it comes to sexual attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-breaker — whether she consciously realizes it or not. The number one turn-off reported by most women is — not surprisingly — bad breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of smell also plays an interesting biological role in what attracts her to a man, according to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a woman with a wealth of information about a man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny airborne molecules that humans emit from various glands in their body — can influence a woman’s desire to be sexually intimate with a man. Male pheromones have been shown to provide information on a man’s symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic fitness and ultimately can determine whether a man is genetically compatible with a woman. “For many women — whether they realize it or not — scent can play an important role in determining her willingness to have sex with a man, given her ‘sense’ of whether they can produce genetically healthy, strong children together,” says Buss.
4. Her guy’s choice of words
Often, what a man says is more important than what he does when he’s trying to get a woman in the mood. “Offering compliments is usually a sure-fire way of making someone want to get closer… although, if the compliments come across as insincere, they will actually turn her off,” says Meston.
To score extra sincerity points, make references to future activities you’d like to do together, explains Meston, noting that showing signs of commitment can often be sexually alluring to women. Buss also notes that a man with a sense of humor is also a sexual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says, adding that a good sense of humor also conveys some key qualities women want in a mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a. having the mind-reading skills to know what she will find amusing), and social verve or confidence.
5. The need for revenge
In their research, Meston and Buss found that many women had “revenge sex” with someone other than their most recent dating partner to get back at a cheating partner or to “even the score,” as some women put it. “Some women hoped their ex would find out about it and feel angry or hurt, and other women said they didn’t care if they found out or not — they felt better just knowing they had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why is the need for revenge such a turn-on for women? “Revenge can serve two basic functions,” Buss explains. The first function is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop picking on victims who retaliate, cheating partners sometimes stop their illicit activities when the other person retaliates in kind. The second function of revenge is “reputation management,” says Buss. “Women who are scorned sometimes suffer damage to their social reputation, whether they are cheated on or dumped. Having sex — especially if it is with someone who is relatively high in ‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.
6. Genetics
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or Major HistoCompatibility genes) are dissimilar to their own, because this is the set of genes involved in determining an individual’s immune function. “Having children with men who are dissimilar produces children with healthier immune systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly, women seem to be able to pick this up through sense of smell, especially at ovulation, if they are not on hormonal contraceptives.”
7. Her physical health or well-being
If you’re looking for a few good reasons why she should have sex with you, there are countless ways in which you can emphasize that “getting busy” would be a wise move for her health. “During orgasm, opiates — the body’s natural painkillers — are released, which can help decrease all sorts of aches and pains for women,” Meston explains. Sex can also help maintain the body’s flexibility and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety, and enhance overall mood. Additionally, Meston notes, having sex during menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of course, sex (if it lasts long enough!) can also be a good calorie burner, so you can always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for dessert.
8. To raise her social status or sense of self-esteem
In their research, Meston and Buss found that, for some women, having sex is more about competition and winning (see who went home with the good-looking guy at the bar?). For women that do this to compete with others and also raise their social standing, her intended target’s social status is a key factor in revving her libido. “Young women who are ‘groupies,’ for example, often compete to see who can have sex with the musician who has a higher status, while Monica Lewinsky raised her status by having an intimate connection with the President,” Buss says. She goes on to explain that, for women who have sex to raise their self-esteem, the motivating factor is usually the need to feel sexually desirable. “Some women suffer from low self-esteem and feel bad about their bodies for a variety of reasons, ranging from comparisons with media models to put-downs by their regular mates,” explains Buss. Having sex with a man who finds her irresistibly hot and her body incredibly beautiful can provide a huge boost to a woman’s self-esteem — so if you’re looking for a little loving, make her feel like she’s the sexiest woman on the planet!
Source: Match.com
Hot Mama: See Bikini Photos of First Female President of Croatia
You probably didn't know that world leaders can be sexy too. Croatian female president just proves that fact
Photos of female Croatian president, Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović is breaking the internet. Not just her usual photos, but bikini-clad photos.
Although it's not known when the photos were taken, but the Croatian leader looks like she is enjoying herself in what appears to be vacation pictures.
47-year-old Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović is serving as the 4th President of Croatia since 19 February 2015. She is the first woman to be elected as the President of the Republic.
Grabar-Kitarović has been married to her husband Jakov Kitarović since 1996 and they have two children: Katarina and Luka.
She speaks Croatian, English, Spanish and Portuguese fluently and has basic understanding of German, French, and Italian.
Photos of female Croatian president, Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović is breaking the internet. Not just her usual photos, but bikini-clad photos.
Although it's not known when the photos were taken, but the Croatian leader looks like she is enjoying herself in what appears to be vacation pictures.
47-year-old Kolinda Grabar-Kitarović is serving as the 4th President of Croatia since 19 February 2015. She is the first woman to be elected as the President of the Republic.
Grabar-Kitarović has been married to her husband Jakov Kitarović since 1996 and they have two children: Katarina and Luka.
She speaks Croatian, English, Spanish and Portuguese fluently and has basic understanding of German, French, and Italian.
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Wednesday, 23 December 2015
See the 500-year old Church Where Oba of Benin is the General Overseer (Photo)
An ancient church in Benin Kingdom founded over five centuries ago under the overseeing of the oba of Benin
On Akpakpava Road in the heart of Benin City, the Edo State
capital, is a church founded over 500 years ago, according to the
Nation.
The architectural design of the building tells its story. It does
not advertise itself; yet has a large following. The Oba of Benin is
its spiritual head, reports Osagie Otabor.
The Holy Aruosa Cathedral is to the Bini people what the Church of
England is to the English people; no wonder it is referred to as the
Church of Benin.
Welcome to the Holy Aruosa (the eye of God) Cathedral an inscription on the church building reads.
Members of the Holy Arousa are different from flocks of other religious bodies: they are seldom seen sharing pamphlets to convert members or inviting people to the church. The church leaders do not hold crusades or revival services to convert ‘souls’, neither do they invite people to experience miracles.
Legend has it that the church was located at the place because it was the spot the Bini had direct contact with Osanobua (God) long before the coming of the European explorers and missionaries.
According to the folklore, a powerful spiritual leader known as Okhuaihe was said to have offered to personally take the peoples’ plea to God as a result of drought and pestilence that had infected the land. He gave up his life during one of the prayer sessions. He was expected to return and bring succour to the people.
Welcome to the Holy Aruosa (the eye of God) Cathedral an inscription on the church building reads.
Members of the Holy Arousa are different from flocks of other religious bodies: they are seldom seen sharing pamphlets to convert members or inviting people to the church. The church leaders do not hold crusades or revival services to convert ‘souls’, neither do they invite people to experience miracles.
Legend has it that the church was located at the place because it was the spot the Bini had direct contact with Osanobua (God) long before the coming of the European explorers and missionaries.
According to the folklore, a powerful spiritual leader known as Okhuaihe was said to have offered to personally take the peoples’ plea to God as a result of drought and pestilence that had infected the land. He gave up his life during one of the prayer sessions. He was expected to return and bring succour to the people.
Tuesday, 22 December 2015
Ex President Goodluck Jonathan Named The Trent's Person of the Year 2015
Nigeria's online news platform, The Trent, which is one of the most
influential online newspapers, has named former President, Goodluck
Ebele Jonathan 'Person of the Year 2015.'
The newspaper's President and Executive Editor, Ms. Aziza Uko told journalists in Lagos on Monday. "We are delighted to launch our Person of the Year Award with such a deserving statesman.
This marks our second anniversary and our Editorial Board
decided to launch this award to celebrate the best among us, to present
to the country, especially, the young generation, real symbols of hope."
See How Many Treason Charges FG Slammed on Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu
Amid protest by Biafran agitators for the release of their leader,
Nnamdi Kanu, the federal government has slammed a number of fresh
treason charges on the embattled IPOB leader.
Despite clamour for his release, the Independent People of Biafra
(IPOB) leader and Radio Biafra Director, Nnamdi Kanu is to be charged
with treason.
Kanu was arrested on October 14 in Lagos and arraigned before an Abuja Magistrate’s Court on October 19.
The court struck out the charges brought against him by the
Department of State Service (DSS) because the prosecution applied to
withdraw the charges.
Justice Adeniyi Ademola of the Federal High Court, on November 10,
ordered that Kanu be detained for 90 days but dismissed this ruling on
December 17 and ordered the DSS to release Kanu after holding him for
about two months. He also vacated his earlier order permitting the DSS
to detain Kanu for 90 days.
However, Kanu’s arraignment, which was scheduled for Tuesday,
December 22, did not hold because the hearing notices were not served on
parties involved.
The six-count charge of treasonable felony filed against Kanu and
two others last Friday by the Federal Ministry of Justice was listed
yesterday before Justice Ahmed Mohammed of the Federal High Court but no
proceedings were conducted because the prosecution was not represented,
though the defence was represented by Ifeanyi Ejiofor.
It was gathered that no hearing notice had been served on parties
as at yesterday and that Ejiofor was only in court having learnt about
the pendency of the charge informally.
Ejiofor said though he was yet to be served any hearing notice, he
confirmed yesterday that the state had, indeed, filed a fresh charge
against his client, a day after a judge, also of the Federal High Court,
ordered his unconditional release.
“I know they filed the new charge to justify their continued
detention of my client after the court ordered his release. We are
filing our bail application tomorrow (today) to compel them to come
before the court to justify his continued detention, failure of which
they shall be compelled to release him,” Ejiofor said.
It was also gathered that Kanu and others may be arraigned today
and if that fails to hold, the trial will be shifted till after the
Christmas holidays.
Policemen and DSS officials maintained heavy presence around the
court from 7am till 1:30pm, but left hurriedly on learning that the
arraignment had been shifted till a later date.
Kanu is being charged with, among other things, engaging in acts of
terrorism and sponsoring same, belonging to an unlawful society and
inciting the public against the Nigerian state.
Monday, 21 December 2015
Nigerian Tribune vs Prof Sagay: The Truth of What Really Happened
The real story of what really happened between the renowned human rights
lawyer, Professor Itse Sagay and Nigerian Tribune over the alleged
defamation has been revealed. See it all here.
The Nigerian Tribune has tendered a most deserving apology after it
published a false interview conducted by one of its politics reporters
in which Prof Itse Sagay was alleged to have condemned President
Buhari's war against corruption. In a release on Monday, 21st, 2015, The
Nigerian Tribune clarified the air on what really happened...
The statement reads:
'Re: Interview with Professor Sagay: Retraction and apology'
The Sunday Tribune published an interview in its December 20,
2015 edition with the headline: "Buhari not sincere with corruption
fight--Sagay." A lot of issues have since cropped up on that interview
with the supposed interviewee disclaiming it through an online medium.
We have done a preliminary in-house investigation into how the interview
was conducted and on what could have gone wrong with it.
The fact of the matter is that the interview was conducted
through telephone by one of our politics reporters on Thursday, 17th
December, 2015 calling the interviewee on TELEPHONE NUMBER 08023137144.
The normal introductory formalities, according to the reporter, were
observed before the interview commenced. In the course of the interview,
the person on the other side answered all questions even when he was
addressed as the Chairman of the Presidential Advisory Committee on
Anti-Corruption.
Online reports quoting Professor Sagay as denying granting the
interview were, therefore, received by us with a shock. We consequently
listened to the audio recording of the interview and, regrettably,
discovered the voice not to be that of Professor Sagay. While we are
continuing our investigations on who the person on the other line
actually was and what could have gone wrong along our own line of
editorial control, a number of disciplinary actions has been taken
against our key members of staff involved in the publication.
Specifically, the reporter has been dismissed from the employ of the
company and the Editor, Sunday Tribune, placed on indefinite suspension.
We have no reason whatsoever to put words in the mouth of the
respected Professor Sagay. We apologise to him. We equally apologise to
President Muhammadu Buhari and all other persons who were variously
attacked in the publication. Our apologies also go to our esteemed
readers. There was no deliberate action on our part to mislead our
readers. We have an enviable pedigree and a long history of pioneering,
in this country, a brand of journalism that upholds the truth as
inviolable at all times. We have an institutional rigorous process in
place that hitherto ensured this kind of unfortunate slip never took
place. How this happened, escaping the control system, is part of issues
we are addressing. We are taking a firm, corrective look at that
mechanism again.
Once again, we promise our readers that this unfortunate
incident will not happen again in our operations even as we retract the
interview in its entirety.
Management
Prime Minister of Commonwealth of Dominica Denies Ex-Oil Minister Alison-Madueke's Rumours
Prime Minister Commonwealth of Dominica, Prime Minister Skerrit has
described as malicious, rumours making the rounds that former minister
of Petroleum, Diezani Alison-Madueke has been invited to relocate in the
country and now has Dominican citizenship.
The Prime Minister of the Commonwealth of Dominica, has said it is
not true that his country offered or encouraged Nigeria’s former
Petroleum Minister Diezani Alison-Madueke, who is facing major
corruption investigations in Nigeria and the United Kingdom to make his
country her home.
Contrary to reports that the former Minister had arranged to move
to Dominica, Mr. Skerrit said the idea of relocating to Dominica was
never discussed with her, let alone agreed.
Full text of the statement:
There is no truth to the rumour of a former Government Minister
of Nigeria being offered or encouraged by the Prime Minister or
Government of Dominica to make The Commonwealth of Dominica her home.
Prime Minister Skerrit explained that in May of this year,
during a routine stop-over visit to London, Madueke was introduced to
him as the immediate past Minister of Petroleum Resources in Nigeria and
also immediate past President of OPEC, the Organization of Petroleum
Exporting Countries. These discussions however took place well before
any question of an investigation by the relevant authorities arose.
Prime Minister, Honourable Roosevelt Skerrit has made clear
that the idea of relocating to Dominica was never discussed, far less
agreed, in any discussions with or on behalf of Diezani Alison Madueke,
the ex-minister of Petroleum Resources in Nigeria, who is now under
investigation by United Kingdom and Nigerian authorities. Indeed, the
Prime Minister said the discussions surrounded her continued residence
in the United Kingdom and ability to travel to Africa in order assist
Dominica. The Prime Minister stated: “The academic and professional
credentials of Mrs. Madueke were impeccable. She had been a senior
government minister since 2007, having served also as Minister of
Transport and Minister of Mines and Steel Development.
Additionally, she served as an Executive Official and Director
of Shell Petroleum Development Company in Nigeria. In my Budget Address
to the people of Dominica two years ago, I outlined the intention and
policy of my Government to recruit persons of experience, influence and
integrity to serve and represent Dominica in various capacities abroad.
As a small nation with very limited resources, we do not have the
capacity to establish consular or other offices in many regions of the
world. In this case, who better to speak for and on behalf of Dominica
in parts of the African continent than a former President of OPEC and
former Chairman of the West African Gas Pipeline Authority. Also, it
must be recalled here that Mrs.
Madueke was educated in the United Kingdom and United States of
America, having studied for her Bachelor's degree at Howard University
in Washington, D.C. and post-graduate studies at Cambridge University in
the UK. So, on the recommendation of a number of outstanding
individuals of note, and after thorough due diligence studies were
undertaken, the Government of Dominica agreed to the appointment of the
former Nigerian Government Minister as Trade and Investment Commissioner
for Dominica, with the specific remit of promoting and marketing the
trade and investment opportunities of Dominica. This was especially the
case considering her obvious contacts following her stint as President
of OPEC. The issue of her relocating to Dominica was never raised in any
of our discussions, because at the time Mrs. Madueke was to my
knowledge in good standing in Nigeria and United Kingdom, having only
just demitted office in Nigeria and established living arrangements in
the United Kingdom.
The arrangement of Mrs. Madueke serving in an honorary
capacity, with no direct remuneration from Dominica and Dominica
facilitating her travels across Europe and Africa with the issuance of a
diplomatic passport, was entirely in accordance with existing
convention, protocol and practice, until the very recent and unexpected
development of the investigations by UK and Nigerian authorities. This
development was not foreseen nor anticipated by the due diligence
undertaken on behalf of the Government, and could not have been and was
not foreseen by me or the Government of the Commonwealth of Dominica.
I should add that the Ministry of Foreign Affairs moved with
dispatch to suspend all relations with Mrs. Madueke immediately
following her arrest in October 2015, pending the outcome of the
investigations. This suspension took place in the month of October. Our
position is that the relationship with Mrs. Madueke and all that flows
from this will remain completely suspended until such time as the probe
into her conduct as a Minister of Government is concluded and a
determination made by the relevant authorities.”
See the Face of Court Registrar Sentenced for Duping Ex Chief of Army Staff (Photos)
A
woman found guilty of fraud by a Lagos court, has bagged a lengthy jail
term which caused her to collapse as judgement was given by the Judge.
On Monday, Justice Lateef Lawal-Akapo of Ikeja High Court, Lagos
State, sentenced a court registrar, Mrs Oluronke Rosolu, to 10 years
imprisonment for defrauding a former Chief of Army Staff, Lieutenant
General Ishaya Bamaiyi of $330,000.
According to the Nigerian Tribune, Rosolu was convicted on all the
two-count charge of conspiracy and obtaining money by false pretences
brought against her by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission
(EFCC).
While sentencing Rosolu, Judge Lawal-Akapo, said:
"The representation that she never collected $330,000 from the
complainant is deceptive; the accused could not provide a strong alibi
for her whereabouts when the fraud occurred.
"I find the accused guilty as charged. As a registrar of court,
the accused should have been an image maker of the judiciary, but she
acted in the contrary. She has to swallow her bitter pill.
"On count one, I sentence the accused to 10 years imprisonment
and on count two, I sentence the accused to 10 years imprisonment.
"Both sentences are to run concurrently."
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reported that Rosolu collapsed in
the dock as soon as the judge gave the verdict, wailing in Yoruba
language: "I do not know anything about the money, what is going to happen to my children."
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See the N27.8million Bottle of Champagne Some Nigerians Buy in the United Kingdom
A social media user has shared a shocking discovery of the ostentatious and luxurious lifestyle of Nigerians in the UK.
Dr. Ayoade Alakija, an activist
for social justice and change, shared her mind boggling, overwhelming,
startling discovery on Twitter.
According to her, she visited Selfridges in the UK where she
spotted a bottle of Champagne that goes for 94,000 pounds which amounts
to N27.8 million Naira in Nigerian currency and she was shocked to know
Nigerians were the major buyers of the champagne despite over 60 percent
of the population being stricken by poverty.
See screenshots from her Twitter account:
The expensive champagne on the shelf
Sunday, 20 December 2015
The Story of Emmanuel Ngene, the Nigerian Jailed 330 Years in the US for Raping His Daughter
A Nigerian man has been controversially handed an unbelievable sentence
for raping and assaulting his own daughter in far away United States of
America.
Emmanuel Ngene will be spending his sixth year inside a South
Eastern United States penitentiary. At 56, he has 225 years, five months
and ten days left to serve for first degree rape of his daughter, a
crime he continues to deny, supported by members of his network of
friends and family. Few years after he was incarcerated, Emma Ngene had
partial stroke from the stress of the trial and subsequent imprisonment.
Emmanue Ngene, like most aspiring young Nigerians whose lives were
mortgaged to a battered inflation-driven economy of early 80s, sought
survival overseas. He chose the United States as his destination for
better life. He relocated in 1981. He would discover that life in God’s
own country was just an imaginary tale. On arrival, Emmanuel desired
education. But he had no money. Survival in a strange place, alone, was
then important to him. He engaged in menial jobs to support his dreams
of a better life here.
Years after he adapted to the lifestyle and surviving the culture
shock of a different environment, Emmanuel returned to his hometown in
Eastern Nigeria in search of a wife. He found love in Mary, a home girl.
They married months after. Emmanuel became a regular visitor to his
homeland from America; frequenting his village to be with his new wife
and family. He returned every holiday, especially Christmas, to
celebrate with his wife and other members of the family. Their first
child, a baby girl, was born on November 9, 1998 in Nigeria. The couple
would have two additional children after the birth of their daughter.
In June 2007, Emmanuel’s wife and children came to the United
States to live in a two-bedroomed apartment with their father. Family
and friends said that marital problems manifested when the wife was
shocked at the strange standard of living in America as compared to what
she was used to in Nigeria. She was also alleged to be disappointed
that her husband was a Taxicab driver, an unsteady source of financial
income.
Emmanuel was gone all day, driving a taxi from morning and returned
home at night with not enough income to support the family. Soon, the
parents began arguing about money. Mary allegedly complained regularly
of being bored at home, caring for the children. Emmanuel, frustrated by
her daily musings about life in the United States and insufficient
income, encouraged his wife to get certification for CNA: Certified
Nurses Aid: she did, passed and got employed at one of the nursing homes
as a care giver: providing ageing American population with daily
assisted living and care.
His wife’s new job, allegedly introduced her to a new social
environment. She immediately began to explore her new found friends and
friendship within her work place. Emmanuel suspected a change in his
wife’s attitudes: she was no longer the charming obedient wife he had
in Nigeria. She would refuse his sexual desires and appeals. The
marriage became tumultuous.
They were drifting apart as husband and wife: Emmanuel complained
to his friends that his wife was always gone and seemed no longer
interested in the marriage. It also affected his taxi cab business. He
often returned home midday to make sure the children were fed and cared
for. Most times, he alleged the wife was gone. When he asked her where
she had been, she yelled at him: ‘mind your business.
I am a grown woman and I can do whatever I want to do.’ Emma was
raging inside. He thought he had a decent beautiful wife that loved the
family and the children. He thought it was until death do them part! A
wife he married and suffered to bring to America. Their children were
drifting apart too.
The circumstances that led Emmanuel Ngene into a lifetime jail are
too complex. The stories are bizarre from both sides. Ngene’s family
sources, almost seven years after he was found guilty, still believed he
was railroaded by his wife and the judiciary. Their stories remain
consistent, each alleging that Ngene’s wife, Mary, may have coerced her
daughter to lie that her father raped and assaulted her.
Part of the family version said that during one of Ngene’s lunch
visits home to check on the children, he allegedly found his then young
daughter in an explicit compromising position with a neighborhood boy,
in the family’s living room!. He became agitated, asked the boy to leave
immediately. Soon after the boy left, he grabbed his daughter and
spanked her intensely. Mother allegedly walked in as dad was spanking
their daughter. She jumped on him and began to scratch and scream.
Their daughter, disengaged from the whip, cried profusely from the
burns of the belt whipping. She had lacerations on her butt. Their
mother, while restraining Emmanuel, instructed their daughter to dial
911. Few minutes later, police came to their door, handcuffed Emmanuel
and took him down town. The police officer, noticing the lacerations on
the girl’s body, requested for the ambulance to take the young girl and
her mother to hospital for medical observations and interrogation.
Emmanuel was hauled to jail!
However, in a court document filed, the court posited, “One day in
August 2007, defendant asked Cindy(to protect the minor child, the court
identified her as Cindy, not her real name) to help him check his email
on the computer in his bedroom. After they had finished with the email,
defendant told Cindy to stay in the room while he went into the
bathroom. He came out wearing only his underwear and a T-shirt. He asked
her if she knew what sex was and then pulled down her pants while she
was lying on the bed.
He pulled off his underwear, got on top of her, and had vaginal
intercourse with her. On 31 August 2008, Cindy’s mother took Cindy to
the emergency room at Wake Med where they met with a nurse, Kimberly
Lewis, and a doctor, Dr. Chris Johnson. Ms. Lewis did a head-to-toe
assessment of Cindy and observed bruises on her arms. Cindy told her the
bruises came from a broomstick. Cindy also informed Ms. Lewis that she
had been sexually assaulted many times.
“Dr. Johnson took a basic history and examined Cindy to determine
if she needed immediate treatment. Cindy told him that defendant had
been having vaginal and anal intercourse with her over the past year.
Because she had not been assaulted within the past 72 hours, Dr. Johnson
did not perform a rape kit. Dr. Johnson’s examination of Cindy was
limited to her external genitalia and looking for signs of trauma, of
which he saw none. He diagnosed Cindy with alleged sexual abuse. He
noticed that Cindy appeared somewhat shy and that her mother was
“appropriately concerned and worried.”
The hospital notified Wake County Human Services (“WCHS”) and the
Raleigh Police Department (“RPD”) of the allegations. Katie Treadway of
WCHS and Officer Harvey of RPD arrived at the hospital to interview
Cindy. After describing the sexual conduct, Cindy also informed them
that one time she bled after defendant had sex with her. She also stated
that sometimes defendant “peed on her,” and she had to go in the
bathroom to clean herself up. Ms. Treadway felt Cindy was very detailed
in her description of the events.
Over the course of Cindy’s fourth grade school year, defendant
engaged in vaginal intercourse with Cindy approximately 10 times.
Approximately three of these times, defendant had her turn over on her
stomach so he could also penetrate her anus. In August 2008, Cindy
finally disclosed to her mother what defendant was doing.
At the hospital, the doctors during examination found that she had
been penetrated. The police officer asked her who may have penetrated
her; she looked at her mother, seeking protection. Her mother instructed
her to answer that it was her father! She reluctantly told the officer
that her father had penetrated her! The officer asked if she was sure,
she bowed and fearfully said yes sir!”
However, Emmanuel Ngene denied the rape charges and penetration of
his daughter. He contended that her daughter was sexually molested and
penetrated by a boy at her school in Nigeria, the head mistress of the
daughter’s school called him when the incident happened and he travelled
home to remove his daughter from the school because of the molestation.
The court wrote thus:
“Defendant first contends that the trial court erred in not
allowing him to testify regarding his claim that Cindy had been sexually
assaulted in 2006 by someone else while in Nigeria. He argues that this
evidence was admissible under N.C.R. Evid. 412(b) because it provided
an alternative explanation for the paediatrician’s physical findings.
Although Rule 412 generally excludes evidence of a complainant’s prior
sexual behaviour as irrelevant, it provides an exception for “evidence
of specific instances of sexual behaviour offered for the purpose of
showing that the act or acts charged were not committed by the
defendant.” N.C.R. Evid. 412(b)(2).
“Here, defendant testified during voir dire that, in 2006, he
received a call from his wife that Cindy had been sexually assaulted at
school, was walking funny, and was bleeding. He claimed that he flew
home to Nigeria and transferred Cindy from Graceland Private School,
where the assault had supposedly occurred, to another school.
“When Cindy and her mother were questioned on voir dire,
however, each denied that any sexual assault had occurred. Cindy
acknowledged changing schools, but her mother explained that she had
moved Cindy to a different school because Graceland Private School was
too expensive.”
Emmanuel remained in the county jail as prosecutors began to build a
case against him. The prosecutor offered him a deal: Plead guilty and
spend 15 years in jail or go to trial and if found guilty, could face
250 years to life. He refused the deal and sought to be tried because it
was an abomination, in his culture, for a man to sexually molest his
own daughter and penetrate her. He felt his innocence and said that he
would rather die in jail than plead guilty to a crime he did not commit.
It took one year for Emmanuel to go to trial. It only took the jury
three hours to return with a guilty verdict. Emmanuel was sentenced to
300 to 369 years in prison. On December 3, 2009, Emmanuel Ngene began
serving his sentence. He was preparing to travel to Nigeria to bury his
mother when he was arrested.
“On 22 September 2008, a grand jury returned 15 separate bills
of indictment, charging defendant with four counts of indecent liberties
with a child, four counts of incest, three counts of first degree
sexual offence, and four counts of first degree rape. Following trial,
the jury found defendant guilty of all 15 counts and also found the
existence of an aggravating factor: that defendant had taken “advantage
of a position of trust or confidence to commit the offence or offences.”
The trial court entered 15 separate judgements. The court
sentenced defendant to four consecutive aggravated-range sentences of
300 to 369 months imprisonment for the four counts of first degree rape;
three consecutive aggravated-range sentences of 300 to 369 months
imprisonment for the three counts of first degree sex offence; four
consecutive presumptive-range sentences of 16 to 20 months imprisonment
for the four counts of incest; and four consecutive presumptive-range
sentences of 16 to 20 months for the four counts of indecent liberties
with a child. Defendant timely appealed to this Court.”
Recently, Ms. Mary Ngene was contacted for interview with regards to this essay. Her response: ”If you write anything about me, I will sue you!”
Source: Punch
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