To know a man who is after s*x is so easy but girls fail to realize
this either because they are not interested to know or they are bouyed
by the breeze of love or the guy's physical features.
Yes! Men are interesting pieces of creation, but you must be
careful before you get ruined by them. Unlike women who can suppress
their sexual thirst, men cannot and most only come for your cherry.
According to a recent study, seven out of ten men cannot resist
sexual temptation, and some men go to the extent of love-conning women
like in the above scenario. Brian Okoth highlights some of the ways to
identify a man who is coming after you just for s*x.
1. Keep the goodies in the cookie jar
Nowadays, some men feel entitled to sharing your bed after
splashing out on one date. But be advised, a few drinks and a cheap meal
are not legally binding. The longer you avoid sleeping with a man, the
more time he spends learning who you are and you who he is. A man with
short-term intentions will find the wait exceedingly tiring and will
sooner or later leave you for an easy prey.
2. Pace yourself
Men often feel entitled and arrogant when they see that you are
prepared to drop everything to see them at the last minute. No matter
how enticing his invitation is, when you accept it on the same day it
sends out the message of desperation and easy hunt. Most instances
before his invitation, you have plans of going out with your
girlfriends, washing your hair… At the beginning of love and passion,
your priority should be only you. The man has not yet done enough at
this stage to be worthy of being a priority. Show him the tough side of
you, and he will chase after you.
3. Never accept a date via text
When a man is a serial texter and fails to call before your first
date then, be certain you are a far option; there’s the main girl
somewhere whom he spends all his airtime on.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule. However, in most
cases this kind of behavior subtly communicates his sole desire of
sleeping with you at minimal cost. A text is the minimum effort required
to see you when he doesn’t want to face the awkwardness of conducting a
conversation if he isn’t interested in your personality. Never
entertain a man who does the bare minimum; Kenyan singer Wahu calls them
“Vibowow”: they are never serious.
4. Be keen on the language he uses on you
It is your first date with him and this man insists on telling you
how hot you are, and not how thoughtful and brilliant your conversations
are: this lad only has short term intentions with you.
If he finds a way of ‘sexing up’ every conversation that’s a sure
sign he is after that one thing. So hurriedly gulp that bottle of
expensive drink he bought you and leave that man alone
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