Many people just jump into a relationship no wonder they run as
fast as they rushed into it. For you to have a good lasting
relationship, you must learn and study these guides to help you know how
to make the best out of your relationship. Dolly Alderton has dished these interesting facts that is very handy. Enjoy.
1. A good relationship is one where you take turns to be the parent
for each other. A bad one is when this is unbalanced. Partners should
both need each other equally, at different times, for different reasons.
2. Of course a first date should not be an activity, you mad
asshat. Stop making it complicated. You should only ever be eating,
drinking, talking or snogging on a first date.
3. The perineum is not just a mountain range between France and Spain.
4. In a relationship, the woman will always integrate into the
man’s life more easily than he does into hers. I have never seen it
happen the other way round. She’ll go to all his friends’ birthdays,
she’ll do the group holidays and she’ll befriend all his friend’s
girlfriends. It’s not because she finds the integration process more
enjoyable than he does, she just finds it easier.
5. If you really like someone, you really should not have s*x with them on the first date. Sorry. I know. Annoying.
6. The greatest, filthiest, nastiest, most exciting s*x you will
ever have will be with someone you’re in love with. Sorry. I know.
Boring.
7. If you are having doubts about your relationship — this is the
litmus test: Imagine you can go into a room, press a red button and it’s
all over. No break up conversation, no guilt, no tears, you just press
the button and it’s done. If that were an option, would you do it? Yes?
Then you need to break up with them now.
8. Moving in with your partner too soon is relationship anthrax. Leave it for as long as possible.
9. Buying a pet in a relationship is a bigger deal than buying a house.
10. You should have s*x with as many people as you want, but you
should always be careful with their heart, your heart and contraceptive
methods.
11. Mischief is what ties a couple together. Lust inevitably fades,
mischief will be thrilling forever. Have cruel nicknames, get pissed,
go on adventures, break rules. The couple that pranks together, stays
together.
12. Being single is a gift. It’s incredibly freeing and almost
always not forever. Use the time to get really, really happy with
yourself. Don’t use it to run around chasing love.
12a. You will only meet someone truly great when they find you at your best. Being saved will never work.
13. The bit about breakups they never warn you of is how many
things that end other than the relationship. You’ll lose friends, you
won’t be able to listen to certain albums anymore and there are places
you’ll never want to visit again. Memory association is the fuck-tonne
of salt poured into the wound of a break-up.
14. A man who pushes pubic hair preference on a woman is no man at all. She ain’t no topiary bush for you to play with, pal.
15. You will nearly always fall for the person you didn’t think was your type.
16. If women fake orgasms it’s nearly always because they feel guilty if they don’t.
17. If women fake orgasms, they stop a few years after having s*x.
18. A woman doesn’t always orgasm.
19. The most irritating feeling in the whole, entire world is when
your partner is drunk and you are not and they are talking loudly to a
group of people.
20. Intimacy is amazing. Eating Chinese food together in your
underwear is amazing. Familiarising yourself with every millimetre of
someone’s naked body is wonderful. So is wearing their holey jumper that
smells like them. Proper intimacy is not something to be afraid of —
it's fucking amazing.
21. Over familiarity is not amazing. Do not for a second think
sitting in front of the TV in silence is intimacy. Or farting without
saying sorry. Taking each other for granted is not intimacy. It’s
absolutely horrible.
22. There is no such thing as a boob man or a leg man or an arse man. Men are naked women men.
23. Love can disappear for no reason other than people growing up and changing.
24. Most petty rows can be resolved with a quick, giggly shag in a bar/restaurant loo.
25. Men get off on visuals in a way that women don't. Keep your
dick photos to yourself, it does absolutely nothing for her. It's just
like sending her a photo of a chair or a shelving unit.
26. The worst thing to hear when you're being dumped is that the person doesn't fancy you anymore.
27. Break ups get easier as you get older. The first time you get
dumped will be the worst it ever gets. You’ll feel as lost as a little
kid, wondering how you’re ever going to put yourself back together and
re-learn everything.
28. A relationship is meant to be quite easy. It’s not meant to be
all shouty, teary histrionics; there is no fun to be had in this. It’s
meant to mainly just be a joy.
29. Flirting is a load of old nonsense. Take a look at the first
texts you exchanged in your current relationship. Meaningless, silly,
nonsensical, round-about, inconsequential, embarrassing blabber about
nothing. But, yeah, it’s important.
30. There is no feeling more wonderful than when you first fall in
love. And as corny as it is, there’s no bloody avoiding it. You think
you’ve felt all the feelings possible and then it hits you — bam — a
brand new one. Like suddenly experiencing hunger or lust or jealousy for
the first time — there is love. It rampages through your entire body,
awakening every cell and fibre as it goes. It turns you into a raving
lunatic. You’ll notice the beautiful way the sun falls and the blossomy
smell of the air. You’ll want to be just excellent to everyone. You’d
happily empty your pockets and give it to anyone who needs it. You’ll
wonder why anyone ever gets bothered about anything if they know this
feeling exists. And suddenly you know everything will always be fine
because you know, somewhere, this feeling exists.
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