Although wedding ceremonies hold weekly, the number of ladies
searching for a husband increases by the day. This article by
loversecretz tries to provide some of the reasons why most girls stay
years without finding their dream man.
1. Traditional restriction
It baffles me to see that there are so many people that still holds
on to the tradition of their ancestors which states that they must
marry only within their place and nowhere else. Why it is not bad to
keep the tradition of your ancestors, don’t allow this particular one
make you lose the opportunity to get married to the man that loves you.
2. Confusion in the type of suitor to choose from
You’ll see ladies going about being confused and contradicting
themselves on the kind of guy they need. Imagine a lady will want a
faithful guy, handsome, tall, godly, macho, good with kids, he might
drink socially, good cook; can you imagine? Where do you expect to see a
man with all these qualities you want? It is better for you to note
down what you need, things that blends and not contradicting each other.
Life is not a fairytale. If you want a man that is 100% perfect, then you can get him inside the land of fairies.
3. Outrageous financial expectations
So you want a man that earns a million naira daily, huh? That’s why
ladies are easily deceived by men who ride fancy cars just to entice
them and get them laid. No lady wants to marry a struggling guy; they
want an already established man. This mentally of ladies is bad, and if
you want to get married, see above luxuries and wealth and look keenly
into the personality of a man. If your boyfriend has a vision but still
isn’t very strong financially, better stick to him and plan things out.
4. Fighting with his people
Some ladies are the ones using their hands to spoil things for
themselves. They expect their fiancée to value her more than his family
members. They just want him to forget about his family and focus only on
her. Who does that? They pick up fights and quarrels with their
potential in-laws who are atrocious. Just like your fiancée, your
in-laws deserves respect! For ones, place yourself in their shoes. If a
girl wants to marry your brother yet shows disrespect and shows contempt
for you, will you support the marriage?
5. Immaturity
Some ladies can be so silly and immature. They pick up fights and
quarrel at every single fault or wrong from their boyfriend and
potential husband. Just because he forgets your birthday, you rush to
break up with him without hesitation. Ok, be forming super babe until
age catches up with you. Common, you are heading for marriage, and if
you start showing him silly and childish attitude at this stage, I doubt
if he will go ahead with the wedding. In marriage, you talk things out,
not fight with your partner.
6. Pride
Pride is one thing that is killing and has destroyed many young
ladies that are searching for a husband. Common, you are searching for a
husband, yet you still turn down every guy that wants to have a word
with you, tell me, where do you expect your man to come from, heaven?
You can't eat your cake and have it dear. Swallow your pride and, at
least, give a listening ear to men when they approach you, remember, you
aren’t getting any younger.
You don’t reply messages; you are all harsh on guys, and then still
say you are searching? What an irony! Open up a bit, babe and guys,
both serious and unserious will flock to you, and then you can take the
time to make your choice.
7. Spiritual attacks
Although some might not believe in this, there are some spiritual
forces above human reasoning that might be hindering ladies from getting
married. The solution here is that ladies should also be religious in
their search for husbands.
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