Women are complex creatures, yet some men do manage to get them coming back for more. As complex as they are there is always that one guy that makes you think twice. The reason is simple: women have a pin code. Get her smiling and giggling all the time by following these directions.
1. Create an atmosphere
Her comfort is paramount. In order to give her multiple orgasms,
she’ll need to surrender herself to the experience, and she’ll need to
be at ease to do so. You can help calm her mind and quell her
inhibitions with a little environmental preparation that’s sure to put
her on the road to sexual bliss. Clean sheets, downy pillows, tissues by
the bed, soft lighting, and subtle scents in the air will aid in
creating that easy atmosphere. Take a few minutes to clean your pad,
take a shower and shave before she arrives. Also, set your cell phone to
silent or turn it off. Finally, if she is a new or newer lover; cut the
cord and remove any pictures that remain of your ex.
2. Sweet-talk her
While her body rests from its latest mind-blowing peak, keep the
momentum and energy going with your mouth, mind, lips, and tongue. OK,
you could go down on her, but I’m talking about keeping her mind
sexually engaged and her body humming with sweet words. You will be able
to maintain her physical desire if you describe and tell her how
amazing she feels, how incredible she looks as she explodes, and how
she’s driving you insane with her beautiful body. Be creative and
inventive with your words. Women enjoy feeling a strong and firm grip on
their body, so take hold of her as you ready her body for yet another
orgasm. She’ll appreciate your pillow talk and physical desire. The
sexier and more comfortable she feels, the more she’ll let go.
3. Try different variations
If you know the kind of stimulation she likes, such as clitoral,
vaginal or G-spot, it may be wise to keep it that way and just change
the position or technique. This will help you give her multiple orgasms.
For example, if your girl achieved her last orgasm quickly and easily
through clitoral stimulation, hit the same trigger, but try a different
angle or speed. This will effectively aid her in reaching another
intense orgasm. Conversely, if she has received a lot of clitoral
stimulation she may want a break from her little bud being constantly
massaged or manipulated. In this case, a vaginal or G-spot rub may hit
the spot. Understand that after orgasm some women may experience an
almost uncomfortably or unbearably sensitive clitoris. She may not want
continued touching in that area. When and if this occurs, attend to
another sweet spot while her bundle of nerves recovers. Here,
communication continues to be a key point.
4. Make it about her
Help her to understand that the night is all about her pleasure.
Make her feel that you have the entire night to devote to her
satisfaction. Pay no attention to the time it takes. Your patience will
have multiple payoffs (i.e. give her multiple orgasms), but if she feels
rushed, she will be less inclined to relax and feel comfortable —
feelings that are not conducive to achieving multiples orgasms. An
excellent way to emphasize how much you enjoy making her feel good and
to show her that it really is “all about her” is to bring her to orgasm
before penetration. She will feel that you really do want her to reach
great heights throughout the night, and that you consider your
satisfaction secondary — don’t worry, when’s she has had enough you’ll
get yours.
5. multiple miracles
Remember: Orgasms are for her all night. If she wants a lot of
little explosions or one huge inferno, it is for her to decide. This
isn’t the time to flex your sexual prowess and try to make your woman
come over and over if she doesn’t want to — she might prefer the one
peak. Remember that the goal is her satisfaction, not your ego’s
inflation by hearing her scream out repeatedly. Just listen to her or
ask. Don’t assume that you know what she wants and how she wants it.
Take your time and you'll give her multiple orgasms.
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